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Note: ARMS 13 week DVAT Course is a prerequisite for this ManKind Facilitator Training ManKind groups are a 36-week program (minimum) for men who have chosen controlling and abusive behaviors and require both male and female facilitators. ManKind is a faith-based program designed to help men understand their controlling and abusive behaviors and to deal with the beliefs, views and opinions behind them. ManKind has shown great success and the recidivism rate is only 5% compared to the much larger national average. Cost is $500.00 for the this course (includes 30 hours of batterer’s intervention, curriculum/leader’s manual, one participant notebook for duplication and ongoing support and consultation with the ARMS office).*DETAILS:
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Part 2 occurs on an online platform and lasts 5 weeks. This portion is flexible time, as long as you complete your work within the week it is due. ABOUT THE DVAT ONLINE TRAINING MODULES 5 Weeks-Online Modules Required Reading: “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft Module 1: The Effects of Abuse on Women and Children Study how many isolated issues are not recognized as effects of the trauma of the abuse women and children are facing. You will understand how domestic violence impacts mental health for both children and adults, even when they are only witnesses of abuse or controlling behavior. Module 2: Understanding the Mentality of an Abuser Discover the top warning signs of an abuser and learn what to ask your group members to help determine if change in their abuser is possible. You will review the tactics that abusers commonly used and discover how power and control can be misused. Module 3: Risk Assessments & Safety Planning Learn about a Danger Assessment and when it is appropriate. Learn how to ask questions in a group setting to determine risk to a group member. Understand how ARMS uses safety planning and what is recommended for a safe exit from an abusive situation. Module 4: Trauma’s Impact on the Brain Understand how our brains physically change with abuse and trauma and how to work with group members who are struggling. Learn some common “triggered responses” and the best way to deal with each one. Study The Drama Triangle and learn what role you most naturally move into as well as how to change your natural inclinations to healthy and helpful responses within your group. Module 5: Group Dynamics and Leadership Boundaries Video segments of do’s and don’ts within a group will be shown to help you best understand how to work with this those who have experienced abuse. Study how to be the most helpful versus using enabling or rescuing techniques. We also cover ARMS-approved guidelines for running groups, provide a final quiz and request a course survey from participants. -
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The ARMS DVAT 13 week course is a prerequisite for taking this Virtue Facilitator Training.
Virtue groups are a 36-week program (minimum) for women who have chosen controlling and abusive behaviors and require female facilitators. Virtue is a faith-based program designed to help women understand their controlling and abusive behaviors and to deal with the beliefs, views and opinions behind them. Virtue has shown great success. Cost is $550.00 for the full course (includes 37 hours of batterer’s intervention, curriculum/leader’s manual, one participant notebook for duplication and ongoing support and consultation with the ARMS office).* Training includes: DETAILS- Students and instructor meet on Zoom 1 day a week (7am-3pm Pacific for 5 weeks) for a total of 6 weeks. *ManKind curriculum is available for an additional $50 for trained Virtue facilitators. -
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Learn the myths about strangulation, the science behind it, the stages victims go through, the symptoms of strangulation and how we can help. Online, flex hours, 3-5 hours of time over a two week period. For your professional knowledge or ARMS Leader Recertification. This topic should be taught in medical fields, especially ER or urgent care, in police training, for all counselors, pastoral, marriage, and general counseling. I knew if you were strangled long enough you'd die. I didn't realize how quickly and how much damage to the brain it costs. I look forward to learning more and being wiser and aware of the possibilty in my classes. Good to know that I will know what to say and how to help any woman in my classes. -Claudia This course had a lot of information and knowledge. So glad that strangulation is now being identified as one of the most lethal forms of domestic violence. To be able to understand the difference between choking and strangulation. Strangulation is an ultimate form of power and control over a victim's next breath. It can have a devastating psychological effect or a potentially fatal outcome. This is a course to put in our toolbox and be able to identify and understand. Thank you. -Sonja T This was incredibly informative. I wasn't sure how an entire course could be written on this one criminal subject, but you have done it - and it was interesting and educational...Thank you for bringing up strangulation during intimacy - I have heard of it but wouldn't have known what to say before reading this information. I also appreciated the section regarding a victim's retelling of the incident - that they may have memory loss, appear confused, etc. Friends have also reported their own memory loss to me, and had been shamed for it. I can now offer them reassurance that this is normal. Thank you for handling such a violent and criminal subject so thoroughly. We will all benefit from this training. -Ruthanne -
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These mini-lessons include 6 videos (with handouts and resources) equalling about 1.5 hours of training time. (Note that two lessons are repeated in the "Abuse Awareness & Recovery" Class). Once purchased, buyer will have access to them for 60 days time. If you are with an organization, your staff members and volunteers may also watch these lessons without making additional purchases. After purchasing, you will receive an email (we will send to the email listed on your order form) within 2 business days with the URL to visit and your password. If you need this information before then or you do not receive it (please check junk and promo folders), email or call 866-262-9284. We are open M-F, 8-5 Pacific time. These lessons are intended to help you learn how to help clients or others affected by domestic abuse. Although clinicians often ask on intake forms if there is abuse in the home, the most common answer received is "no". But in reality, 3 or 4 out 10 clients have been affected by domestic abuse, whether they understand it or not. Included are many handouts and articles that are copyrighted by ARMS - Abuse Recovery Ministry & Services. These lessons are not to be posted on social media or shared with people outside of your organization. The password will be changed regularly (please contact us at 866-262-9284 if your alloted time to watch is not expired and you cannot access it). If others want to view these lessons, please have them purchase their own access. By watching the below lessons and accessing the resources, you are agreeing to these terms. Thank you for wanting to learn more and please do not hesitate to call us at 866-262-9284 or email for additional resources and/or recovery group information.These lessons include:
How Domestic Violence Affects Your Ministry. In this first lesson, you will gain understanding about how vast domestic violence is based on national statistics. You be able to better recognize that many of the people you work with have been or are being abused, regardless of the intake forms. You will learn about the impact of abuse on women and children, and how it seems to pass from one generation to the next. Recognizing the Cycle of Abuse. In this lesson, you will learn to recognize the cycle of abuse. If a person can recognize it, they can step out of this repetitive cycle and ultimately end the abuse in their life. (Note: this lesson is repeated in "Abuse Awareness & Recovery") Understanding Power & Control. During this lesson, we will discuss the eight ways most abusive behaviors present themselves. You will receive an in-depth understanding of psychological abuse, property abuse verbal abuse and much more. (Note: this lesson is repeated in "Abuse Awareness & Recovery") Signs of Abuse & Trafficking in Your Clients. We will guide you to a better way to determine potential abuse, including signs of potential abuse in a client from childhood to a current intimate relationship. We will also cover possible warning signs that a client has been trafficked. You’ll gain some practical ways to begin addressing abuse even if your client doesn’t see it. Understanding the Barriers to Leaving Domestic Abuse. There are numerous barriers victims must overcome in order to find their way out of an abusive relationship. This is a complex issue with no easy or simple solutions. In this lesson we cover what a victim is thinking, the obstacles they must overcome, and what prevents themfrom reaching out. How to Help Your Clients. In this lesson we will talk about ways we should and shouldn’t advocate when working with a client who is experiencing domestic abuse. We will discuss how you can walk alongside them, encouraging them in the difficult but healthy choices that need to be made and helping them in their healing process. We will also dicuss varied healing modalities.We are offering a limited time sale to launch these lessons of only $17.99 for the sixty days of access for you and people in your organization who wish to learn more.
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TO PAY BY CREDIT OR DEBIT CARD, PLEASE SCROLL DOWN AND CLICK GREEN BUTTON THAT SAYS "ADD TO CART".
These mini-lessons include 6 videos (with handouts and resources) equalling about 1.5 hours of training time. (Note that two lessons are repeated in the "Helping Clients Learn & Heal" Class) . Once purchased, buyer will have access to them for 60 days time. If you are with an organization, your staff members and volunteers may also watch these lessons without making additional purchases. After purchasing you will receive an email (we will send to the email listed on your order form) within 2 business days with the URL to visit and your password. If you need this information before then or you do not receive it (please check junk and promo folders), email or call 866-262-9284. These lessons are intended to help you learn some basics about domestic violence, how it affects us all, how to recognize it, how to start healing and much more. Included are many handouts and articles that are copyrighted by ARMS - Abuse Recovery Ministry & Services. These lessons are not to be posted on social media or shared with people outside of your organization. The password will be changed regularly (please contact us at 866-262-9284 if your alloted time to watch is not expired and you cannot access it). If others want to view these lessons, please have them purchase their own access. By watching the below lessons and accessing the resources, you are agreeing to these terms. Thank you for wanting to learn more and please do not hesitate to call us at 866-262-9284 or email for additional resources and/or recovery group information.These lessons include:
Healthy, Unhealthy, Toxic or Personality Disorder? We discuss the difference between normal relationship conflict, domestic abuse and narcissism. We address four ways that we deal with conflict in appropriately and how we can change that. Recognizing the Cycle of Abuse. In this lesson, you will learn to recognize the cycle of abuse. If a person can recognize it, they can step out of this repetitive cycle and ultimately end the abuse in their life. (Note: This lesson is repeated in "Helping Clients Learn & Heal") Understanding Power & Control. During this lesson, we will discuss the eight ways most abusive behaviors present themselves. You will receive an in-depth understanding of psychological abuse, property abuse verbal abuse and much more. (Note: This lesson is repeated in "Helping Clients Learn & Heal") 17 Warning Signs of Unhealthy People. In this lesson, you will learn to recognize some of the most common warning signs of abusive people and how to disengage from those in your life who are not the best for you. Signs of Abuse & Trafficking in Others. We explain why most deny abuse, and will guide you to a better way to determine potential abuse, including signs of potential abuse in a client from childhood to a current intimate relationship. We will also cover possible warning signs that someone has been trafficked. Can an Abuser Change? As experts in the field of domestic violence, we will draw on the two decades of experience in working with those who abuse, as well as research. We will also answer the question, “What if he'she doesn’t change?”We are offering a limited time sale to launch these lessons of only $17.99 for the sixty days of access for you and people in your organization who wish to learn more.
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Two-week module eligible to re-certify as an ARMS facilitator or to increase your professional knowledge of this subject. Note: this module may have been included in your initial Leader training but you are welcome to retake it. Please check with us if you have any questions. ABOUT THE CLASS: Learn about a Danger Assessment and when it is appropriate. Learn how to ask questions in a group setting to determine the risk to a group member. Understand how ARMS uses safety planning and what is recommended for a safe exit from an abusive situation.I have been appreciating ALL of the material. This week I was glad for the review of the safety rules. Thanks... I was also blessed in thinking about the scriptural basis of possible divorce due to abuse. -Robin
I probably enjoyed this course more than any other I have taken. It seemed to be the practical training for me as a group leader and something I will refer to in the future. I think the corse was well balanced with reading and video, although the readings on divorce took a bit of time to get through. -Marilyn H.
What I especially like are the videos. Very informative and I usually listen to them a couple times. There is a lot of good practical and common-sense information from people who are very knowledgeable. I also appreciate the resource links to download, to have for reference or to share with the women in group. It is a great refresher even as long as I have been leading, I gleaned many nuggets from this. Things I had not used I can now feel confident using. -Maureen